Put your marriage first and watch the rest of your family life fall into place!

Couples Who Do Reflections Marriage Coaching:

Have improved communication

Spend more quality time together

Enjoy intimacy more

Know how to repair after an argument

Laugh together

Can stay calm during an argument

Deal better with in-laws

Demonstrate better boundaries

Bravely weather grief together

Grow closer to God together

Meet goals with more success

Share more romance!

Reflections Marriage Coaching Packages

The RELATE Marriage Coaching Package

Every couple needs tools, direction, and encouragement for dealing with the issues of life together. The RELATE program will help you bring the love, respect, and fun back into your relationship! In RELATE, you will learn to: R – Recharge Your Romance, E – Energize Your Love Life, L – Laugh Together, A – Accept Differences, T – Transform Through Trials, and E – Engage One Another. As a RELATE couple, you will learn to communicate your needs, to find romance, and to get excited about your spouse and your marriage!

“The RELATE program and Christa’s guidance helped us to rebuild, renew and recapture our goals for ourselves and one-another…This was, and always will be, one of the greatest moments in our young, but promising, marriage. Thank you, Christa. May God bless you and your continued success in the calling He has for your life.” – Ryan & Kortney

What You Get With the RELATE Package:

  • Weekly Relationship Coaching Sessions with your Certified Relationship Coach

  • A copy of the book, “RELATE: A Guide to Marriage & Relationship Repair,” for each spouse.

  • Weekly Love Notes/Personalized Relationship Advice from your Certified Relationship Coach

  • Access to the 6 online intensive webinars for the RELATE program

BONUS #1: FREE Access to our private Facebook Group where your Certified Relationship Coach is available to give tips, strategies, and answers to your questions throughout the entire course of your work with us!

BONUS #2: FREE one-on-one individual coaching session about self-care and living The Overflowing Life!

Course Length: 6 Modules over the course of 8 Weeks

The RELEASE Marriage Coaching Package

All couples have a story. Sometimes a relationship has trouble bubbling underneath the surface. If you’re struggling with unforgiveness, anger, hurts, or emotional wounds, then The RELEASE Marriage Coaching Program is for you. In RELEASE, you will learn to:  R – Rest Together, E – Effectively Communicate, L – Let Go of the Past, E – Enjoy Sexual Intimacy, A – Attach Well, S – Serve Christ & One Another, and E – Endure To the Finish Line! The RELEASE Marriage Coaching Program helps couples to uncover and let go of anything that is holding them back from loving each other with everything they have. RELEASE helps couples to understand conflict patterns, to let go of the past, and to truly attach well emotionally and physically, embracing the intimate adventure of marriage as never before!

“What I love are the practical exercises at the end of each chapter which help us to grow together as a couple and be released to become the husband and wife we were meant to be.” – Suzette

What You Get with the RELEASE Package:

  • Weekly Relationship Coaching Sessions with your Certified Relationship Coach

  • A copy of the book, “RELEASE: A Couple’s Growth Workbook,” for each spouse.

  • Weekly Love Notes/Personalized Relationship Advice from your Certified Relationship Coach

  • Lifetime Access to the 7 online intensive webinars for the RELEASE program

BONUS #1: FREE Access to our private Facebook Group where your Certified Relationship Coach is available to give tips, strategies, and answers to your questions throughout the entire course of your work with us!

BONUS #2: FREE one-on-one coaching session on The 7 Strategies for Effective Communication!

Course Length: 8 modules over the course of 2 months

The R & R Signature Romance Package

You wouldn’t be here if you didn’t care about your marriage. The R & R Signature Romance Coaching Program helps you to invest your very best! The R & R Signature Romance Program is a complete marital restoration system designed by a certified marriage expert for couples who want to create a wonderful life together and experience the blessings of marriage now and for generations to come. We integrate biblical inspiration and truth with the best that marital psychology has to offer. We work together very closely in this program, engaging every day that you need during the time you are enrolled. The result? You can expect significant results more quickly!

We love helping couples to thrive, and we can’t wait to help you write the next chapter of your love story! If you want to thrive in your relationship like never before and create a marriage that is as amazing as you first vowed it would be, then the R & R Signature Romance Program is for you!

What You Get with the R & R Signature Romance Package :

  • Weekly Relationship Repair Marathon Sessions (as a couple) – up to 2 hours per session

  • Weekly Individual Coaching Sessions  – up to 1 hour per session

  • Copies of “RELATE: A Guide to Marriage & Relationship Repair” and “RELEASE: A Couple’s Growth Workbook”

  • Priority for Available Session Times (if scheduled at least one week in advance)
  • Unlimited Daily Emails to and from your Certified Relationship Coach for all of your questions.

  • Weekly Personalized Relationship Advice for each spouse

BONUS #1:  Access to the weekly webinars for both the RELATE & RELEASE series (14 episodes)

BONUS #2: Access to the R & R Signature Romance Private Facebook Group!

BONUS #3: FREE one-on-one coaching session about self-care and living The Overflowing Life!

*Love Note from Christa: Since I spend so much time with your marriage on this package, I can only take a few of these clients at a time. So in the case there is a waiting list, you may choose to work with another of our R & R Certified Coaches to reduce your wait time. If you’re not in a hurry, I’m usually available within a month!

Relationship Repair CORE Packages:

The Marriage Fast Track for Couples on a Budget Who Want to Grow

The CORE CONCENTRATED Package:

7 Intensive 60-minute Coaching Sessions lead by a Certified Relationship Specialist

A copy of the RELATE or RELEASE workbook for each spouse

The CORE COMPACT Package:

One Extended Intensive Coaching Session lead by a Certified Relationship Specialist

A copy of the RELATE or RELEASE workbook for each spouse

What Our Clients Are Saying…

“When we first went to Christa less than six months ago, it didn’t take long for us to fall in love with her. We sought her when we thought our marriage was broken. She was referred to us by another reputable counselor whom spoke highly of Christa which in turn gave us high hopes and unrealistic expectations.
By the grace of our loving God, Christa was bestowed upon us as a vessel to help restore our marriage through her compassionate words and instruction. With our submission and obedience to our Lord, His healing and loving powers rekindled our love, intimacy, and emotions toward one another. In the company of Christa, unrealistic became very real as our marriage thrives abundantly more today than it did seven years ago on our wedding day.
In our sessions, Christa coached us how to effectively communicate, laugh, love, rest, recharge, and just be. We have learned to respect each others viewpoints and relate our differences with one another in a nonjudgmental manner. She exemplifies such passion as she coaches couples who need guidance through the love of Christ to heal past, present, and wounds to be.
As we continue our journey of faith and love as an entity, we believe Christa was put into our life for a reason and we are devoted to continue seeking her encouragement. Although we may not understand why things happen, we recognize that it’s all part of our Creator’s plan so we willingly abide.”
Jesus replied, “You do not realize now what I am doing, but later you will understand.” (John 13:7, NIV).
Chris and Tina

Kortney’s Story

“We sought counseling with Christa after a year of marriage. Even before our wedding, we had stress and tension that we didn’t know how to overcome. We fought, argued, and I (Kortney), often asked “Why are we even together?” My expectations were high, and rarely met. His (Ryan) expectations seemed unfair to me, because I didn’t see how I could meet his if he wasn’t meeting mine. 

We had our first child nine months after we were married, so our marriage problems seemed to be put on hold, or grow more tense. Through Relate, we learned to communicate better as a couple, and to prioritize productive time as a couple. One thing I never made time for was self care. I learned that through self care, I could take a break from distractions and stress, just to focus on myself for a little while, before diving back into my marriage and mother responsibilities. 
 
We did the complete RELATE program with Christa, and we put into practice the things we learned. We got our finances on track enough to buy our first house, and God continued to bless our money-management by providing us more finances. It’s not always stress-free meeting bills, and not arguing about money, sex or how to raise our child, but we’ve continued better communication and patience with one another. We now have a second child on the way in July (he is here now!), and we continue to mature as a couple, even while learning to maintain healthy communication, self care, and quality time as a couple and family”. 
 
Ryan’s Story
 
“Getting engaged to Kortney was one of the most thrilling, daring and scary things I have ever done. I just knew, as cliche as that may be, that this was the moment my life had led me to. Both of us were only looking to serve God more, and a friendship began. As quickly as we continued down the path of rebuilding our relationship with God, we were brought closer together. That friendship became a love that set us on a simultaneous path. As we planned our wedding, Kortney spear-heading it the whole way, it seemed like the power struggle began. I was trying to place my foothold on what I though marriage will and should be, while she had her own intentions and hopes for a godly union. Although the wedding was beautiful, just as we planned, it seemed as if our selfishness wasn’t going to budge. Kids? Vacations? Date nights? Love? Life became too many questions, too many walls, too many sleepless nights worrying and wondering if she would just do this, or if I only had control of these things… a worldly mirage, masking the calling of God.
 
Kortney had enough, as did I, and she stayed the course, willing to try one more time, again. She mentioned counselling, and I was hesitant. I thought only people with serious issues do that – but that’s exactly the position we were in. We searched and found Christa’s website, praying the entire time. Our first session showed us that we are no different than others, that many struggle, but we are unique and special in our calling for each other. She reminded us what marriage, and communication, was all about. Through her program, RELATE, we learned to laugh again, find peace again, identify our weakness and hurts in order to support and strengthen one another, regenerate ourselves through self-care, and most of all love again. We came together, as one, through prayer, commitment and perseverance. 
 
The RELATE program and Christa’s guidance helped us to rebuild, renew and recapture our goals for ourselves and one-another. Our family has grown by one since, and will see another strong boy join in the fun in July. This was, and always will be, one of the greatest moments in our young, but promising, marriage. Thank you, Christa. May God bless you and your continued success in the calling He has for your life.” 
- Ryan & Kortney

“So a whirlwind of changes have happened since we first started to meet.Jennifer and I were in our lowest point of our marriage and our church pastors had connected you with us.  We were at a point of desperation where we felt like nothing we tried was going to help.  Our communication and empathy towards each other was gone and we were in a toxic point of our life that our entire family was affected by it included our in-laws.

It is hard to pin point just one thing.  I believe God had placed you in our life at the right time to help both of us to step outside of ourselves, to look at the actions that we were taking and how they were affecting the other person.

For me personally, I began to understand that my silence was so deafening to my wife that it was completely destructive.  I had hurt her for so many years and intentionally & unintentionally placed blame on her for so much because of her expressive nature.   It took a long path of becoming self-aware of these actions.”

We had years before gone a couple times to see other actions,  they generally placed blame on her as well. The focus had always been on her expressive to explosive nature and it was easy for me to unknowingly hide behind.  It only made matters worse. We never grew from it, and she would fall into deeper desperation as it again made it seem like it was all her fault.

Reflecting back while writing this makes me further realize how far we have come. We still have our personalities. I am still quiet and reserved. Jennifer is expressive. However, our work is to continue to understand each other and the empathy creates and new perspective to further love each other even more.

Boundaries and rules set for fighting have allowed us to shorten the frequency and time of conflicts, and we are able to create a safe zones for fighting.

God is truly working on the refinement process for us. Working with you and using the tools that you have taught us have taken us very far, and they will be impactful for our children as well. Truly thankful for you Christa.”

Adolfo and Jen

*The above couples voluntarily gave Reflections explicit permission to share their pictures and word-for-word testimonies so that other couples might also get the help they need.

Our R & R Marriage Coaches

Christa Hardin, MA, LLP, CLC
Director and Marriage Coach

Melissa Jansen, CLC
Certified Life Coach

Jamie Foss, CLC
Certified Life Coach

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