Enneagram & Marriage Couple Guidebooks

Wondering how your relationship can grow specifically? Whether you’re an introvert or extrovert, love talking things through or avoid conflict like the plague, we’ve got you covered with tips for both you and your partner! Learn how your partner’s personality type combines with yours to create a beautiful new glow! 

Not sure of your types?

Here is how the various types often find their safety in relationship. 

Ones – Ones value order and goodness because they feel order equals safety
Twos – Twos value helping and serving  because they feel giving equals safety
Threes – Threes value performance and looking good because they feel achievement equals safety
Fours – Fours value beauty and compassion and feel uniqueness and ranking equals safety
Fives – Fives value privacy, innovation, and research, thinking knowing equals safety
Sixes – Sixes value planning and loyalty because they think preparedness equals safety
Sevens – Sevens value being unrestrained because they think freedom equals safety
Eights – Eights value being in the lead because they believe power equals safety
Nines – Nines like to avoid conflict because they believe peace equals safety

Each type also struggles with a core fear or wound.

Ones – Order – If I am not all good, I am all bad.
Twos – Giving – If I am not serving or being served, I am not worthy.
Threes –  Performing – If I am not gloriously achieving, I am nothing.
Fours – Ranking – If I am not better or unique, I am to be despised and not special.
Fives – Knowing – If I am not fully competent and energy-protective, I will be overwhelmed and lose my life.
Sixes – Preparedness – If I am not prepared, I will lose all my security
Sevens – Freedom – If I am not free, I will be overwhelmed and in unbearable pain.
Eights – Power – If I am vulnerable, I will be overtaken and completely defeated.
Nines – Peace – If I do not keep the peace, I will lose my relationships and disappear. 

Find your type pairing’s 30+ page guide in the dropdown menu.

Each booklet includes:

• An illustrated poster celebrating your unique pairing’s ways of shining in the world (your “glow”)
• Specific date night ideas and tips for your types
• How to stoke the fires of sexual intimacy for each personality in your pairing
• How your relationship dynamic influences the world at large
• Important recommendations to thrive through conflict 
• Guided journal with thought-provoking questions for you to answer together.
• Actionable tips on loving your person well based on their Enneagram type. Upon purchase, you will receive an instant download containing 2 files.1.) A PDF of the 30+ page guide. Formatted to 8.5” x 11” sheet for easy at-home printing 2.) A high-res JPG of your poster. Formatted to 8” x 10” sheet for easy at-home printing