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Wondering how your relationship can grow specifically? Whether you’re an introvert or extrovert, love talking things through or avoid conflict like the plague, we’ve got you covered with tips for both you and your partner! Learn how your partner’s personality type combines with yours to create a beautiful new glow! Grab yours >>here!<<

Not sure of your types?

Here is how the various types often find their safety in relationship.

Ones – Ones value order and goodness because they feel order equals safety
Twos – Twos value helping and serving because they feel giving equals safety
Threes – Threes value performance and looking good because they feel achievement equals safety
Fours – Fours value beauty and compassion and feel uniqueness and ranking equals safety
Fives – Fives value privacy, innovation, and research, thinking knowing equals safety
Sixes – Sixes value planning and loyalty because they think preparedness equals safety
Sevens – Sevens value being unrestrained because they think freedom equals safety
Eights – Eights value being in the lead because they believe power equals safety
Nines – Nines like to avoid conflict because they believe peace equals safety

Each type also struggles with a core fear or wound.

Ones – Order – If I am not all good, I am all bad.
Twos – Giving – If I am not serving or being served, I am not worthy.
Threes – Performing – If I am not gloriously achieving, I am nothing.
Fours – Ranking – If I am not better or unique, I am to be despised and not special.
Fives – Knowing – If I am not fully competent, I will be overwhelmed and lose my life.
Sixes – Preparedness – If I am not prepared, I will lose all my security
Sevens – Freedom – If I am not free, I will be overwhelmed and in unbearable pain.
Eights – Power – If I am vulnerable, I will be overtaken and completely defeated.
Nines – Peace – If I do not keep the peace, I will lose my relationships and disappear. Find your types? Are you a 1 and a 6? A 3 and a 2? A 5 and a 4? Grab your couple’s workbook and get tons of specific tips. Want a guide to go through it with you? Contact us at 941-301-8420 to set up counseling or coaching!

Your 30+ page book Downloadable Enneagram Glow Guide Includes:
• An illustrated poster celebrating your unique paring’s Glow
• Description of how your pairing glows together and in the world
• Specific date night ideas and tips for your types
• How to stoke the fires of sexual intimacy for each Enneagram type in your pairing
• How your relationship dynamic influences the world at large
• How our pasts shape us individually and how we grow together
• Important recommendations to thrive through conflict and tips for when you hit road blocks
• Illuminating insights on subtype, wings, tritypes and how they show up in each Enneagram type
• Guided journal with thought provoking questions for you to answer together.
• Actionable tips on loving your person well based on their Enneagram type

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