The holidays are finally over. It’s one of those times of year when couples are running for the hills…
From each other!
Technically speaking, this is the time of year when divorce rates go up and couples run for protection from the perceived battles. Some run to work, others to service at church, and still others into the arms of someone else.
A few stay in to fight and still others seem to get by with little to no stress.
What gives people this added benefit, the bonus of not having as many difficult issues with those with whom they are in their closest relationship?
The first step in this small population of individuals who manage to leave holiday times unscathed (other than some of them having great support and little to no trauma) is that they are able to SEE one another and to love one another even through the differences.
They recognize their spouse as not a villain to their hero card but as another wounded person who has needs that have been different from their own, and whom also comes with a different gifting set.
The reason I created this Enneagram and Marriage Workbook freebie I’m sharing this week is that I want you and your relationship, despite differences, to also have every chance to thrive.
I’ve outlined each and every personality type (all 9 on the Enneagram) and given you ways you can grow as well as ways your partner can better relate to you and understand you as such.
I encourage you to go through this pretty workbook my assistant Olivia and I worked hard to put together with a tall cup of coffee or tea and really take some notes on it!
If you see yourself and your spouse in it, highlight away so you can begin to bring healthy changes into your family.
You won’t need to run once you know how to handle your spouse and get better balance into your own personality type and subtype as well!
May this get you off to a great start in 2020! Click here to get the PDF workbook right now!
